Suzanne Venker is the voice of reason about modern man woman relationships

Suzanne Venker is a welcome voice of reasoned

argument in the gender situation, nay crisis of today

In 1976 the equality act came into being in the United Kingdom. Designed to end discrimination between men and women, it solved some problems and created a minefield of litigation cases and situations where women wanted to act like men.

The 'stay at home wife' situation became negated,

largely through high housing costs meaning both partners had to work

Gone or going was the notion of the stay at home wife. The 70's had brought in a burn the bra militancy in which women demanded 'rights.' In some respects, they were needing the balance redressed, but as we have seen things have swung too far the other way.

Feminism at its worst

The 1980's brought us a decade of the 'young professional woman.' A decade where women came to the fore in business and led business.

Power dressing with big shoulder pads and big balls attitudes, big legal cases of discrimination and the 'have it all' new generation of women, juggling childcare, a high profile job and a marriage were the new normal.

The women were largely being sold a lie. The glossy magazines relentlessly pumped out issue after issue of girl power edicts, but the reality was not an orgasm every time you had sex, it was a general decline into Wine, for the women who wanted it all but the reality was that they were just worn out by trying to juggle too many things.

Suzanne Venker can see that it is not possible to have it all in the way it was being 'sold' to women. She is taking a more realistic and sensible approach and has a welcome input and outlook. She is saying the things that women need to listen to.

The future of humanity is about working together to reduce our consumer addictions, to care more for people and if we don't mend the man woman relationship situation, we are likely to expire due to lack of replacements.

The American Indian people had a great approach to the man woman relationship, they found boundaries and regarded the Earth as a mother, nurturing and creating life and the sky as the father.

Russell Means, American Indian activist and speaker of much sense

The Indian peoples built a great nurture based clan system that looked after young and old and those in need. The women were accorded respect and the man and woman were equal parts, like the bow and arrow, one is not much use without the other.

The late Indian activist Russell Means said of feminism, why was it necessary for Women to want to be like men? Of course the Chief Sitting Bull had drawn an obvious conclusion in his quote above many years before. Eagles do not have to be Crows.

One does not want to go back to a situation where women were treated as second class citizens, you only have to look at the Middle East to see that situation is alive and well there, sadly.

That is where the hard ball feminazis should be directing their efforts to helping their sisters there, not picking on easy targets in the West.

You only have to look at the dating site profiles to see why some women are 'Seeking Mr Darcy,' no, you're just seeking a fantasy, lady. Men are turned off by some women who think they are able 'to get' by hard bargaining.

That's why many men seek women to date from other countries, places where the rules are different. Now women are wondering why they don't get asked on dates or asked out.

The reality is most men don't want what they're selling. They think they can still have it all, but the reality is men do not want a finger wagging hardballer. You don't get that from a Thai bride.

Now the hardballers are left retreating to 'girls nights out' clasping at their white wine in glasses and going home alone. Some years ago, I started receiving a round Robin email from a person that worked with my mother as my mother didn't have email or use a computer.

What I got on a weekly basis was a man hating set of 'jokes' (I call them that with some reservation), in the end I got so fed up with this childish situation, I took issue with the sender. I got really annoyed with one of the missives and said that they ought to grow up and that the man woman problems were being created by this sort of thinking, strangely I never got any more of these emails.

If women get on through their own merits, fine, I have no problem with that. If they work for success and get it, fine. I only have issue with the ones that are power crazy zealots.

Women are being bombarded with a constant 'look good, feel good' barrage of adverts, they fail to look at what they have and enjoy it, they are striving to achieve what is most cases a 'what they don't have ' or being sold to as 'what they need' must haves that is the problem.

Men are now confused as to what these women want, they see a 'hard shell' that seems to be self sufficient and can get by without their help, even denying help. What do they do?

The attitude of some women towards men and their interests is quite sad. If a man likes his cars, sport or hobby, as long as it is not harmful and he enjoys it, so what? As long as the woman in his life is respected, loved and cared for what is the problem? The man it seems.

The problem is that the feminists see themselves as victims of nature and victims of nurture. In the American Indian society women nurture and have a very respected role, in western society, women are told to have it all and it they can't, they employ people to  'do' for them, a housekeeper, child minder, dog walker etc, etc. so they can.

That is 'having it all' that is not having a man and woman rubber band relationship of give and take, sharing. More an 'I am a woman, I am in charge, I can do all this.'

You can only spin so many plates, before they start to crash to the ground.

Keep talking Suzanne, we need a voice of reason to help right things.

Return to Vagenda - because you've gone too far - 40 years of equality

Well, I think this says it all...

Just that as a man I would be criticised for saying it

So 40 years after the Equality act came into being, how have we fared? There is some debate that women are still under represented in some situations, less well paid than men in the same jobs and discrimination seems to still exist, sometimes.

But, as Barbara Ehrenreich has stated above, some women have just gone 'too far' and have become like men. The late American Indian activist of the Lakota people Russell Means stated something along the same lines as Barbara Ehrenreich, that women had just 'become like men.'

In the American Indian society there was always a reverence for the female, the Earth was described as Mother Earth. The Indians had a greater understanding through their spiritual based belief of the role of things. I think they had it right.

Organised religion belief systems have done much damage by their dogma, take those that deny the use of contraception, they not only condemn women to years of childbirth and child care, they create in often poor areas of the world more poverty by extra mouths to feed where this is completely unnecessary.

The American Indians did use natural family planning and as such maintained more viable communities which did not suffer because of lack of resources.

The American Indians had an appreciation of the man and woman relationship

This was how their society was able to function so well for all, for centuries

It served them well enough

You don't have to be anything that you are not

A mere 3 years after the Equality act, Britain got its first female Prime Minister in Margaret Thatcher. She was the right person at the right time to sort out a country that had just about become beyond repair thanks to strikes and the previous government.

Mrs Thatcher was the person who showed the rest of the world that Britain was open for business and with the success of the Falklands campaign, that Britain could not be messed with. This was one opportunity where a woman could behave robustly because it was the right thing for the right occasion.

Margaret Thatcher may have made some unpopular decisions

but then again, Medicine doesn't always taste nice

I had a lot of respect for her in her heyday

Snowflake generation upstarts do just this, sadly...

They should stop hitting easy targets like Western men

and direct their efforts to furthering women's rights in the Middle East

It is now time for a re evaluation, the balance seems to have swung too far the other way. Do you know I was pushed out of a job recently because a female Director wanted 'an all girl office.' Well she got that and her sales dived back downwards I have heard.

She announced she was taking over Sales and Marketing of which she had no experience and which was quickly apparent, I had 20 years experience. So she engaged a female friend of hers to advise them on this area.

Feminism at work? Well if that's how it is, you can keep it. I have worked with women for over 30 years and have never had any experience like this in any other job, thankfully. This included service in the Police where I worked with women at Senior rank with no issues.

We are approaching a time where things in our world will have to change for the future if we are to survive as a species. This means we are also going to have to revise our way of operating as a species and as men and women and to re-evaluate where we are going.

One thing I have noted in mostly female offices is sometimes a woman saying 'I'll have to get a man to do that.'

So I guess until someone invents a vibrator that can also put up shelves, men still have some relevancy.

The cybersex future brothel service to come for Robosexuals with USB-like plug and play Gonads

A 'Linda Lovelips' - the sex doll of err... choice of the 1970s, apparently -

has anyone ever tested the legal efficacy of the 'realistic vagina, mouth and anus'

USP statement from their advertising claims in a trading standards court we ask?

Things have come a long way, so to speak....

The future is Cyber Vadge and Cyber Cock, with USB-like Plug and Play Gonads

The changing demographic of human society along with social changes and rampant and rabid feminazism has led the human male to a new place and technology may provide them with what they are seeking.

Err... no thanks

The dating game has moved on from the small ads columns in local newspaper to become big business in the Cyber age. Match and similar companies head the legit end of the market. But are they facing new threats?

Yes. The Tinder and Ashley Madison generation is here. No longer do you always have to pay for your thrills, with a 'like' function on dating apps, there is the danger of a shallow relationship arena based on looks.

This combined with a rampant and rabid feminist agenda held by some women is driving men elsewhere, usually to younger women. The younger women find that the mature man is not like their youthful 16-25 year old counterpart, so they are attracted to someone who has worldly experience and is perhaps more aware of the value of long term relationships.

This often leaves a swathe of available women who now have no male in their life, so they date younger men, a Milf and Cougar set who like the freshness of sex with younger and probably shallower men.

The prissy feminists who do date but only on their terms are becoming increasingly isolated from men because is their attitude. These 'Double A battery girls' who rely on Rabbit vibros to cure their lack of male interaction will ultimately be the losers.

So what is the future?

The Female sex robot of the future perhaps?

Robot sex.

The advance in a humanoid-like technology is one of the key industry sectors in future technology. The race is on to reach a stage called 'singularity' in which discerning between a human and robot at sight is difficult. Plus the robot will have the functionality of us.

Red Light areas may be lost to cyber technology alternatives

Now this opens up a new avenue for the sex industry, true cyber sex.

So, the red light districts of old may well disappear as punters both male and female can take advantage of true plug and play technology. The future is Cyber Vadge and Cyber Cock. Punters will be able to take their own personal plug and play gonad units to plug into existing humanoid shells and have sex, safely.

Bad news for the sex industry perhaps, but it means no more females will end up dead from either disease or being murdered by their clients.

The cost of a complete cyber partner that is fully functional may be about £5000 or so as an estimate, but as a fully functional human type entity, that will be cheap. With an optional build plan, you will be able to take advantage of choosing appearance and temperament.

We can now download dreams and thoughts as 'video' it is not too far down the road to the point where we can capture and copy our spirit and incorporate this into a 'unit' that looks like us and will allow us spare parts permitting, to live for hundreds of years.